Home Alone, It’s Not Always Fun and Games

Home Alone, It’s Not Always Fun and Games

4 of the 6 critters in the house hanging out on new dog beds!

4 of the 6 critters in the house hanging out on new dog beds!

I share my home with Shayne, Rio, Bandit (my mom’s dog), Panther, Monty, and Jefferson–plus the occasional foster dog.  It can be a bit much in terms of the number of critters that share the space but I am extremely fortunate that managing this bunch is actually pretty simple.   There are many homes and situations with multiple pets/dogs that require different degrees of management to run smoothly.

When talking about multi-pet homes, there is no one size fits all picture of what a home should look like.  Depending on all the individuals involved, each house will look different.  One is not any better than the other–they are just different and suited to each individual set of pets. When there is only the six resident animals in my house, the level of management in my house is pretty low.  With the exception of one incident between Shayne and Panther a year ago (in a very specific circumstance that is strictly managed), there has not been a single scuffle, snark, or concerning incident between anyone.  There is a very rare (once with Shayne and once with Rio) moment of a yucky face resource guarding over food items but it has never escalated beyond a face and a small growl.

When I am home, all the critters have access to one another, the dogs can all have resources together (though they go to separate areas on their own), they have access to toys/chews, and they come and go as they please.  The cats have wall shelves, cat towers, window perches, and a gated off area so they can always get out of the way of the dogs if it gets rowdy.  I manage the play level and don’t allow picking on anyone but it’s pretty  harmonious. Although they live completely peacefully when I’m home, I still have a very low-level management routine in place for when they are left unattended.  Since they have never had any scuffles or issues, the dogs are left unattended together in a gated off section of the house.  The cats have access to the dogs area but most of their favorite sleeping spots are outside of the area so they aren’t together too much when we are not home.  Even though there has never been any indication of problems, there is still risk in leaving 6 animals together unattended.  Given that there has never been so much as a serious disagreement between them, the risk is low, but it still exists.

The fantastic use of an x-pen to keep Loki safely contained when left unattended.

The fantastic use of an x-pen to keep Loki safely contained when left unattended.

The risk for issues is drastically greater when there are foster (or new) dogs in play.  These dogs are new to the mix and do change the dynamics of the group.  All but one of my foster dogs were with me for more than 3 months–some as long as 7 months.  All of the dogs, except for Linus because of his separation anxiety, were left separated from the rest of the animals when they were unattended.  There was too much risk of a fight happening with the unknown dog in the mix to leave dogs together (even if they had been with me for 6 months).  Anything can happen when dogs are left unattended, disputes over couch space, toys, beds, or even just floor space can quickly escalate into a disastrous fight (remember these ARE predators who have powerful mouths full of sharp teeth).  These things can happen even if there had never been a big issue seen when they were supervised (the fact that the humans are home changes the dynamics).

Like previously mentioned, there are many homes that require a higher level of management to keep everyone safe and happy.  Some homes only function on a strict separation protocol when left alone–all dogs are crated or securely separated from other dogs/cats in the home.  Some homes may even have this type of separation protocol for when the dogs are simply unattended–if you are in the shower or in the garage/basement working, the animals are separated.  There are some situations where only certain dogs must be completely separated but others can be left alone together.  Perhaps it’s only a matter of separating the dogs and the cats when left alone.

It all will vary and depend on the individual dogs and the specific situations.  I take into account the history of the dogs (any disagreements/scuffles/fights), how long they have been together, any known behavioral problems, size differences, breeds, and general vibe in the house when I’m choosing what type of management is needed when dogs are left unattended–here are some situations and how I would personally manage them (others may handle the situations differently and each situation is individual and details not included in the snapshot of info might change things).


A household with 3 adult dogs who have been with each other for years.  One of the dogs has a history of resource guarding toys, trash, or couch space.  The guarding hasn’t result in serious injuries but there have been some physical disagreements.

I would not be leaving these three dogs alone in the house together.  The risk of things escalating without me there to step in quickly would be a risk that I wasn’t willing to take.  Since the dog who resource guards does so with a wide variety of resources, it’s not as simple as leaving them without food items.  If there was a single dog who was resource guarding, I may crate or gate that dog separately and let the other two hang out, or I may separate all three.    With three dogs in the house, when two dogs get into it, many other dogs would jump in on the melee and gang up on the weaker dog which can result in serious injury or death of a beloved pet.


A household with two dogs–one is a dog who was adopted/purchased a few months ago. After a rough several days immediately after adding the new dog (no injuries, just some posturing), the dogs have seemed fine together.  No known issues of resource guarding.

I would not leave a newly adopted dog home alone together with the resident dog.  It can take newly adopted/purchased dogs 2-4 months to fully settle into a home, let alone be trusted with the resident dog.  Add to that concern the fact that it sounds like the initial introduction wasn’t necessarily ideal (I would have suggested a two-week shut down for the newly adopted dog, instead of going right to meeting the resident dog), I would be even more cautious.  I would be making sure to have both dogs separated when I was not home to monitor interactions.  Puppy Rio had been with me for about 5 or 6 months before being left alone with Shayne (with no history of any issues between the two).


Two dog household with adult dogs of similar size and two cats in the house.  These dogs have lived together for years.  While they are typically good together, they have a history of a few disagreements that resulted in some minor injuries–maybe a few minor lacerations to the face or maybe a torn ear needing stitches.  Both dogs love the cats and there have been no problems between dog and cats.

Although they are fine together most of the time, the fact that there is a history of scuffles/fights that led to blood being drawn would lead me to make sure both dogs are separated from one another when left alone in the house.  There is a good chance that the prior scuffles were quickly broken up when I stepped in–if I wasn’t there to step in who knows how fast they would escalate and what type of damage could be done.  Since both dogs have shown no problems with the cats, I would be comfortable letting the cats roam as long as the dogs were separated.


A home with three dogs of varying ages.  One of the dogs is either old, frail, deaf, blind, ill, injured, or fearful/anxious/insecure.  None of the dogs have a history of any concerning behaviors with another resident dog.

I would be separating the old, frail, deaf, blind, ill, injured, or fearful (etc.) dog from the others (assuming the other two have no history of concerning behaviors, they would be left together).  Dogs that are deaf or blind can have an exaggerated startle response that could lead to a fight in any number of situations–these responses can be totally out of the blue and contrary to the normal group vibe.  Fearful, anxious, or insecure dogs can easily overreact to situations that don’t warrant a high response–another dog barks or growls in their sleep while dreaming and the fearful dog reacts defensively causing an issue. Dogs that are old, frail, ill, or injured may be more defensive because they know they are not ‘well’ or they can be easy pickings for the other dogs if something were to spark a disagreement or spark an increase in arousal/stress level (door bell rings, car back-fires, thunder storm, etc).


The most important thing to remember is that there is risk involved when leaving animals alone together.  The risk in some situations is pretty low but the risk in others is pretty high.  Dogs are capable of seriously injuring or even killing other dogs/cats in the home–if things go wrong, they can go really wrong.  It is extremely important that pet owners are making safe and educated decisions on the management protocol in the house.  You have to set a management protocol for the dogs/cats that you have, not necessarily for a house full of  perfect Lassies.  I’d LOVE to be able to give the dogs full run of the whole upstairs in my house, but the fact is I have two dogs who are food hounds that will extreme counter surf and open doors to get into things–so, because of their history they are gated into a few rooms that have no food in them.

 It’s okay if a more strict management plan is needed  to assure all the dogs/cats remain safe–it’s not a reflection of you as an owner or your dogs as animals.



  1. This is great! I also foster and management is so important. Safety first!

  2. Excellent post. Especially timely as I will shortly be dog sitting a friend’s wire hair pointer for couple months. Thanks!

  3. Yes! There is no shame in management. I am “down” to three dogs, who have lived together 2.5 years with ZERO incidents. But they are completely separated when I leave. One dog had a serious aggression incident with a former dog. Once. A second dog is much bigger than the other two, and has been known to be pushy about play. The third and smallest has sudden, obviously fearful spells. Not taking any chances.

    Thanks for a great message.

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